Zach finally joined me in the dirty thirty club! We are old! ;) Just kidding 30 is nothing!! We laugh though because we feel MUCH older then 30! ;) Zach joked on his birthday…”I’m 30 going on 78!” I’m getting grey hairs, my eyes are bad ;), my teeth are rotting (he just went to the dentist and had lots of cavities…he inherited bad teeth from his mom’s side! ;)), and I’m going senile (we both forget A LOT!)
Needless to say, even though we feel 78 we are ONLY 30! :/ It’s gonna be a long 50+ or – years ahead of us if we keep going at this rate! ;)
To show Zach how much I REALLY love him I threw him a joint surprise party with his best friend.
They are such nerds! ;)
The best part about it is Zach HATES surprises!! Me and my friend Heidi that helped throw the party for her husband too planned minute to win it games to play at the party too. Zach HATES games! What a bum huh…who hates games?! He TOTALLY married the wrong girl cuz I LOVE games…which is why we played them. The real truth is…he has fun playing them when we talk him into it but for some reason to get him to play is SO hard and he has to complain for thirty minutes before we can actually start playing! ;) Then he has fun…although he will never admit it…I can tell! ;) (Is that a total guy thing or just my husband?!)
I totally tore him up at this game! And no he doesn’t get any freebies for being blind! ;) Maybe if I would let him win sometimes he would like to play! ;) J/K
Poor birthday boys just got beat!
(Jake and Heidi)
Even though he was COMPLETELY shocked and in disbelief…even as we were driving home he still couldn’t believe I did that…since I know how he feels about surprises…HE DID HAVE FUN!!
Heidi and I kept it pretty low key with just his and Jake’s closest friends.
We had some yummy dinner, played a few games, but mostly just had fun talking, laughing, and joking!
We threw the party a week before Zach’s birthday and a couple weeks after Jake’s so neither of them had a clue it was coming. It worked beautifully because I am NO GOOD at keeping things from Zach and he can ALWAYS tell when I am lying…so luckily he didn’t drill me before hand or he totally would have known!
The decorations were the funniest part. Heidi and I printed a ton of pictures of Zach and Jake together (mostly all hunting ones since that’s what they do) and had them all around the party. It kinda looked like their wedding reception! ;)
My sister with her AMAZING shop Salvage Swag (follow her on instagram if you are on there) sent me this killer Happy Birthday banner to use. It is SO cute in person! Not that the boys cared AT ALL about the cuteness! ;)
Their cake was so cute too! There is this SUPER talented lady here at our Walmart that does cakes like it ain’t no thang! She designed this perfectly for our hunting boys!
Not that Zach could see the cool details…but I assured him it was SUPER cute! ;)
We had a great time! Thanks to all who came!!!
We celebrated his actual birthday with his family. I didn’t capture any pictures of the party…as Dakota was having a hard night…if you can’t tell from this picture perfect family portrait! Happy Birthday Zach!! ;)
Happiest family you have ever seen! ;)
We did get a cute one of all the cousins in their Halloween clothes that Grammy and Poppy bought them!
I feel SOOOO grateful and lucky to get to celebrate my main man! He is my best friend, my confidant, my crush, my baby daddy, my eternal companion, my EVERYTHING!!
He makes me laugh when I want to cry, he gets me and loves every piece of me…the good and the bad, he is THE BEST dad I have ever seen, he is my kind of perfect and I love him with ALL my heart!!!
Happy Birthday Zach!I LOVE YOU!! You make 30 look GOOD!!! ;)
The time is literally flying by! I know that sounds so cliche but it really is! I can’t believe how fast Navy is growing up EVERY day!! It makes me sad…Zach just says we will need to have another baby!! ;) This is coming from the man who I didn’t think would ever want another kid after Dakota’s accident! Navy has sure softened his heart! She LITERALLY has him wrapped around her little finger! He is already saying how he is going to give her EVERYTHING she wants. (We will see about that! ;)) He picks her up at the tiniest whimper and when he is home he just holds her ALL day!! I’m not going to lie…it melts my heart to watch him with this girl! Don’t get me wrong…he is an AMAZING dad to Dakota as well…but a dad and his daughter…there is just something so special about it! I think with him being off this winter she might just turn into a spoiled baby girl!!! ;)
SUPERDAD right here! That is talent and strength to carry both kids! Dakota stiffens up when you carry him so that is why he is in that position…so he can one hand him without dropping him! ;) (You wouldn’t get it unless you have held him! ;))
We can’t even stop at Home Depot without his stopping to do this! ;)
We are LOVING this stage though…more then either of us EVER imagined! We LOVE how happy and how much personality she is getting. She will give you a smile SO easily. Her little giggle has even turned into a real laugh. (Babies laughs are to DIE for!!)
We love how she will sit and play on your lap forever and can’t push herself off.
When you put her down on the floor you know she will still be there when you get back! ;) (And that Dakota is safe from her still! ;))
Sometimes we make her cuddle with Dakota man!
He is really coming around and smiling more and more at her!!! It makes my heart smile!!
I just LOVE these two!!!!!
Dakota LOVES her slobbery goodnight kisses the VERY best!!!
Sometimes Dakota even likes to hold her! This is a tricky move! ;) Don't try this at home! ;)
Someday she will be trying to grab his trach right out! :/ Not looking forward to that day!
She is trying to sit up but still doesn’t have the balance for it yet…we let Dakota help her by being her boundary! ;)
She is SUPER good at rolling from her back to tummy. She pretty much rolls over immediately after you lay her down. She hasn’t quite figured out how to get back to her back yet and after so long she starts to get frustrated until you help her. And then she rolls right back over! I am convinced she might learn to crawl before she learns to roll back over! ;)
Back in August she FINALLY got into her big girl bed! I’m a little obsessed with her bedding. My amazing sister Annie helped me choose fabrics and the design of it all. I had it made by a lady in ID. I didn’t do a good job about communicating a couple key things so my cute talented mom had to rip some of it apart and redo some things…and then FINALLY it was done! Her crib was Dakota’s old crib but instead of keeping it the dark red wood…my AMAZING father in law painted it for me and then I distressed it! Turned out PERFECT!!
I love the black and white stripes…the big bows…and the floral fabric on the outside. Maybe on day when we get in our house (who knows when that day will be) she will get a whole bedroom makeover! I’m not gonna lie…I’m dying for a dolled up girls room! ;) My dreams will have to wait!!
She is still sleeping SO amazing which is such a HUGE blessing for me since Dakota has been having some rough nights out of nowhere.
She wakes up so happy grabbing her cute feet and talking! That is my MOST favorite sound EVER to wake up to!!!!
She LOVES her toes and feet. One of the cutest things ever is watching a baby suck on their toes…at least in my opinion. It is crazy how much flexibility they are!!
Her babbles have gotten more and more cuter AND louder! If you don’t pay attention to her she will just start babbling louder and louder until you look at her and then she will give you her gorgeous little smile!
She got her ears pierced at 4 months. (In case you didn’t notice 4 month post never happened! ;))
Her first night! SOOO pretty! ;)
She only cried for like 1 minute!
She has a little stranger danger but if you talk to her first and get her to smile at you you are golden! ;)
Navy and Great Grandma Marilyn.
She is just the best and we are loving her to pieces!! Especially those rolly, chubby arms of hers!!!!
Zach’s mom took a few nakey pictures when she babysat her awhile back! SO cute of her little/big rolls! ;)
I LOVE that sweet face!!!
Her belly and arms!!! I wish my chubs looked as cute as hers!!!! ;)
She seems like she is SOOOO chubby but her 4 months stats for height and weight were pretty average! I decided she just carries her weight a little different then others! ;)
Weight 14.7lbs 53%
Height 25in 62%
Oh Navy Jo Friedli! Thanks for helping make our little world go round! You are a blessing to our family and we NEVER take one day with you for granted!! I sure hope you realize how special and important you are to all of us!!
So Dakota Man is officially a BIG boy at a BIG school now! No more preschool for this kid…it’s the REAL DEAL now folks!!
9.22.14 First Day! All of us had to come wish him a happy day! An official Discovery Dolphin! ;) (I’m sure he was thinking…you guys are SO embarrassing! ;))
I think we were both a little nervous about this big school, new teachers, new kids, ALL day thing!!
So we prepped the night before by reading this book together! ;)
Not sure if that really helped! ;)
As you know we have ADORED his preschool teacher to death!! I knew she would be irreplaceable but I hoped he would have a teacher who could see the boy inside and the potential he has like Miss Kerri did!!
I was nervous what this “special ed” class would look like…would the kids be able to talk to him? Would he get enough interaction? How often would he get to go to the kindergarten class and be with kids his own age??
How would he handle all day without a nap??
Would the kids accept him and be nice to him?? Would this be the year where maybe he would get made fun of or treated badly?!
I had SOOO many worries and questions about what this year would look like!!!
Kindergarten started a week later then all the other kids so that they could have kindergarten assessment. I was surprised that even Dakota got assigned a time and day to come for Kindergarten Assessment…I wondered how they were thinking they were going to test and assess him? ;) But intrigued we went…and really it was just for him to meet his assigned Kindergarten teacher and see his classroom.
The classroom didn’t look nearly as fun as the preschool classroom but I guess it is time to grow up! ;) His kindergarten teacher seemed very sweet but also a little timid with him. I’m sure it will take her a little bit to get used to him! She asked me that day if I would be willing to come in and talk to the kindergarten class about Dakota. I was so excited and thought what a perfect idea!! So day 2 of school starting I went in.
I brought my FAVORITE picture EVER of Dakota because it is a picture that represents EVERYTHING Dakota!
His cowboy hat and boots because he is all cowboy, tractor because he is a tractor man, Sophie the Dog because he likes animals (dogs and horses especially), and my favorite…if you look closely is Mr. Buzz Lightyear snuggled up behind him because he is a Toy Story fanatic! ;)
I shared with the kids what Dakota was like before the accident. How he was a lot like them and could do some of the same things they could do.
I shared that a fence fell on him when he was 2 and that he couldn’t breathe which hurt his brain and made his brain forget how to do all of those things he used to know how to do!
I told them that the doctors were AMAZING though and saved his life. I told them that doctors were really smart and that they used some special things to help Dakota be able to live. I showed them the trach that helps him breathe and cough so that he doesn’t get really sick and die. I showed them how cool his g-tube was so that he can still get food and water even though he doesn’t remember how to chew and swallow like them. I even told them how lucky Dakota was that he doesn’t even have to taste his vegetables…they just go right in! (Dakota smiled at that part!)
Showing off his sweet g-tube! (And 6 pack! ;))
They thought that was pretty lucky. Just the other day a little girl came and sat at the lunch table with him and her whole lunch was vegetables. She told Dakota’s nurse she was going to eat vegetables like Dakota!! (Melt my heart!)
I told them that Dakota has a cool chair (wheelchair) so that he can get around like them even though his legs don’t work like theirs!
Most importantly I told them that even though Dakota can’t talk back to them that he understands what they say to him and he LOVES to have friends and have kids come talk to him, hold his hand, share their toys with him, hug him, etc.
At the end I asked them if they would be his friend for me? And so sweetly and innocently they gave me the biggest nods!
It made my heart so happy!!!!
I started off the year very nervous about the “special ed” class. I never pictured my kid in “special ed” and it was hard to face the reality this year that this is where he will be throughout his whole school career. (Preschool was just preschool!)
I decided this year to take him to school every day instead of riding the bus since it would pick him up super early BUT it has been the best decision I could have made…FOR ME!! Walking in that “special ed” class every day has COMPLETELY changed my perspective of “special ed.” I have come to see as I have gotten to know and watch these SPECIAL kids “special ed” is just that…SPECIAL!!! Each one of the kids in that class have a heart of gold!!! They LOVE each other, their teachers, me, the nurses, everyone…but especially my Dakota man UNCONDITIONALLY!!
They don’t Dakota’s disability like other kids, they see Dakota! They say hi to him just like they would say hi to anyone else! The sweetest little Down Syndrome girl is his BIGGEST fan!! The minute we come in the room she comes over to hug and kiss him and pat his mohawk. They send me pictures of her and tell me ALL day is just like this!!
Does this not make your heart want to explode!!!
She just loves him to pieces and I know he loves her! I swear they were special friends in heaven and just got to reconnect here at school!
I no longer feel bad that my kid’s future is in “SPECIAL ED”…I feel privileged!! He IS so special and there is no other class I would want him to be in!!!
Even though he is in the special ed class…he has lots of opportunity to interact with the other kids at school and he has made quite the impression on the ladies out at recess! The nurses tell me he is constantly swarmed by the girls! (It is great to have nurses to be your picture takers and informants! ;))
Hey Ladies!! ;)
One day a girl asked to go down the slide with him (double slides) holding hands…as soon as they got done there was a line of girls all wanting a turn! ;) Made my heart so happy to hear!
He has this little beauty who likes to take care of him. She just hangs with him at recess while her friends come and go! ;)
Don’t you love the way this girl is just handling his wheelchair like she owns him!? ;)
I feel so blessed that this year is going so well! I know Dakota is loving the constant stimulation and friendships he is forming! I think he was ready to take on the big school…it just took his mom a little bit to catch the vision!
I especially love that he gets to experience more new things at the big school like music class…he loved the drums!
He loves to go to P.E.! And he even got to go to his first assembly! I remember loving those as a kid! The nurse said he was ALL smiles soaking that thing up!!
I am MOST excited that they are all getting trained on using an eye gaze communication that he will be able to use in class! We went one day to learn about it and to see how he would do and the lady over the district said he did the best she has ever seen a kid do on their first time!
The screen has a tracker on the bottom that tracks where he is looking. Once he looks at an object for so long it lights up and says what it is! So he would be able to make choices and play games on it and eventually maybe learn to communicate more and more!
I am SOOOO excited to see where this could go! If we could get this kid an avenue to communicate with us I know he will have SO much to say!!!
I am learning to love his new teacher more and more. She has a lot different personality then the preschool teacher…more serious and quiet. But as she has come to know Dakota she has built quite the schedule for him and makes sure he is working and learning right along with all the other kids! Not sure how these special ed teachers do it…so many different kids with so many different needs! They are superhuman!!
On June 6th we had the wonderful opportunity to bless our sweet Navy! Now typically these are done at the church on the first Sunday of the month but because our little nephew Cruize was going to be blessed that same day and there church is at the same time as ours, we decided to bless Navy at Zach’s parent’s home that evening. I wasn’t sure how I would like not having it at the church but if you have ever been in Zach’s parents backyard you know how magical it is. It has 2 waterfalls, trees and plants surrounding it giving it a natural border. It is breathtaking and makes you feel like you are in the woods camping instead of right there in town.
My whole family was in town from AZ for our family getaway in Park City so they were ALL there…even my sweet grandma was in town for a convention so she was able to make it along with my Aunt Diann and Uncle Chad.
WOW…That’s a big ole family..that I LOVE! ;)
Zach’s whole family was able to make it too besides his brother Ryan and his wife Lindsay (whom we missed).
(sad we didn’t get a picture)
To be in that beautiful backyard surrounded by our dearest family whom we love SO much….it couldn’t have been more perfect. It was such an intimate setting and as Zach took our precious girl in his arms and the men whom I love so much laid there loving hands on her head to give her a priesthood blessing…my heart was FILLED to the max with love and happiness. I knew that this was right where we needed to be!!
As Zach pronounced the blessing upon her…the spirit was so strong and he spoke so profoundly and from his heart. It was one of the sweetest blessings I have ever heard and every word of it was so precious and perfect just for our little Navy!! It is times like those when you watch ordinary men turn into extraordinary…you know how powerful the priesthood is. You know that they are being given guidance in there thoughts and in their words from our loving Heavenly Father!!
As you can tell, Zach was a little emotional! His love for Navy is FIERCE!!
After the blessing I tried to hurry and write down some of the things she was blessed with so that as she gets older she can look back and read and reread them to help her through this journey of life…I sure hope she will!!
She was blessed to:
-Be polite and respectful
-That she will find JOY and SATISFACTION in serving her brother and helping to give him the best life possible
-Have health and strength
-Have a desire to accept the gospel and choose to be baptized
-CONTINUE to be a light to our family
-Have compassion and patience
-Have a desire to go to the temple and be married
-Have patience and persistence in enduring the challenges she will face in this life
-Have a kind and compassionate spirit
-Realize what a blessing the gospel is in her life
Although these were some of the main words spoken…it was truly the spirit that was felt as they were spoken that gave them such power. I only wish that Navy could remember that feeling throughout her life as well! I hope she will ALWAYS know how important she is to our little family and to her Heavenly Father! My prayer is that she will become the person that He sent her here to be!!
We love you Navy Jo!!!
Of course there were LOTS of pictures of this beautiful day!
Zach’s mom was so sweet and wanted to capture her getting ready for her big day!!! I love that she captured this day so well!!!
Thank you Vicki!!!
Getting undressed! She has no idea everyone is coming for her! ;)
Her GORGEOUS dress that was made by my mother’s talented hands with SO much love!! It will be a treasured keepsake forever!!
Wish I had an ounce of my mom’s talent!
Her gorgeous little shoes I had my talented neighbor Terra make just for her!
So patient while mommy buttons her up! Ohhh I die over her little face and dark wise eyes!!
Of course a headband is needed to top it all off! ;)
I LOVED the detail of it!
Especially the back of it!
Then the shoes…
Once she was all complete it was time for her Dad and I to love on her! ;)
Of course Zach would be holding her hand! ;)
Do you think she knows how much she is loved?!
My mom was there to help with the finishing touches! Such a special memory for me and Navy!
I LOVE this sweet picture!!!
And then of course we had to have a quick photo shoot before going down!!
The accessories! ;)
Her sweetest little face!
I think this one was my favorite! Love the sweet angle!!
She got loved on a lot from so many people! She was so happy, sweet, and content the whole entire night! She never even made a peep! I think she could feel what a special day it truly was!
Her sweet and SO special Great Grandparents! She has NO idea how lucky she is to have them here in her life!!!
Navy and sweet cousin Cruiz…blessed the same day!
I love this picture! It looks like Navy is whispering something in his ear! I’m sure something VERY important!
Their mommies lovin on them!!
And their handsome daddies!!
Sweetest cousin Lola was there too so she had to get in on this action! ;)
One day these 3 and Baby F that will be here soon are gonna reak some havoc together!! Until then…we will enjoy this imobile time! ;)
Grammy and Poppy time!
My beautiful sisters/best friends!!!
The 2 most important woman in my life!! I hope Navy and I can both grow up to be just like them!
Such a beautiful, happy, and special day! One that will stay in my heart and mind forever!!!
Thank you to our wonderful families for being a special part of it!!
By the end of the night she was pooped! ;)
We love you SOOOO much Miss Navy!!
I'm the wife to a blind man and a mom to a brain injured angel boy! Never imagined either of these in my "story" of life but I have learned to expect the unexpected. My blog is my journal of this crazy adventure called life...the good, the bad, and the ugly. I try my best to live each imperfect day wonderfully! Sometimes I succeed and sometimes I fail!! But I wouldn't trade these trials for the world. They have taught me ALL of the most important things I have EVER learned in life and have made me the person I am today!!